Thursday, January 1, 2015
i'm sitting in my living room writing this, quiet with the only sound being the crackling of a wood wick candle, in my robe, feet propped up on our newly-reupholstered ottoman, my husband napping beside me, hot coffee at my fingertips, the sun shining in from all directions… and i wouldn't ask for anything more right now.
2014 brought us many good memories, shoving our engagement, the purchase of our first home, and our wedding all in the same year. we took the first phan family trip to dc, we celebrated with so many friends who got married, and we made more new friends in jersey city than we can count.
of course we had our downs too, but if we focus on the downs then we will perpetually be unhappy. instead of focusing on losing loved ones, we celebrate the good times we had with them. instead of regretting the things we didn't do, we find ways to make up the things we didn't do and be thankful for the things we did.
our lives are just that… ours. we have to take control of it and make the best of it, to always be working towards something better, to always set goals, to dream bigger.
as cliche as it sounds, the new year (and any other time of the year) is a great time to reflect on your past, and learn from mistakes, learn from triumph, learn from experiences, and to try to be a better person.
2015 is going to be a great year. in the words of my husband "you just have to WILL it to happen."
cheers, and happy new year.